Important note: In cross-border child abduction or blocked contact situations, every day matters. The information below is a source-linked guide and does not replace case-specific legal advice.
1) First, identify the real legal problem
- Return proceedings (Hague 1980): when a child has been wrongfully removed or wrongfully retained in another country, the objective is the child’s prompt return to the place of habitual residence. See the Convention text: HCCH – 1980 Child Abduction Convention (full text).
- Custody / parental responsibility / contact rights (Romania–EU): within the EU, jurisdiction, recognition and enforcement are primarily governed by Regulation (EU) 2019/1111 (Brussels IIb), with practical guidance on the EU e-Justice Portal – parental responsibility, custody and contact rights.
- Non-EU protective measures framework: for many non-EU situations (where states are parties), the relevant framework can be the 1996 Hague Child Protection Convention (full text).
2) The 1980 Hague Convention in plain terms: what it does (and does not) do
What it does: it creates a procedural mechanism to secure the child’s prompt return to the place of habitual residence after a wrongful removal/retention, and it supports cooperation to protect access/contact rights. See the 1980 Convention text and HCCH – Child Abduction Section.
What it does not do: it is not a “fast custody trial”. The return procedure is meant to restore the status quo and leave long-term custody/contact decisions to the courts of the child’s habitual residence—subject to limited exceptions under the Convention. For practice standards and operational guidance, see HCCH – Guides to Good Practice.
3) Central Authorities: who helps, and who decides
- Central Authority: supports cross-border cooperation, receives/forwards applications, helps locate the child, facilitates communications and promotes rapid handling. Romania’s implementing law designates the Romanian Ministry of Justice as the Central Authority. See Romania – Law no. 369/2004 (Portal Legislativ).
- Court: decides the return application (and connected measures) under the applicable instrument and national procedure.
- HCCH’s role: HCCH states it has no mandate to assist in individual cases; it provides the instruments, resources and coordination framework. See HCCH – Child Abduction Section.
4) When the child is in Romania: Romania’s return procedure (Hague 1980 implementation)
If the child is located in Romania and the other parent seeks return under the 1980 Convention, the key procedural framework is Romania’s implementing law: Law no. 369/2004. High-level check-points you can verify in the law include:
- Central Authority: Ministry of Justice (designated by law). Law no. 369/2004.
- Competent court: the law allocates competence for return applications to a tribunal. Law no. 369/2004.
- Urgency / expedited handling: the law provides urgency and short intervals in scheduling. Law no. 369/2004.
- Child hearing: the child has the right to be heard; the Romanian law provides mandatory hearing from age 10. Law no. 369/2004.
- Protective / anti-flight measures: the Romanian law allows interim measures (including measures related to the child’s travel documents where risk exists). Law no. 369/2004.
- Practical enforcement: if return is not voluntary, enforcement mechanisms (including bailiff involvement) are provided in the law. Law no. 369/2004.
5) EU cases: Brussels IIb + Hague 1980 (how they fit together)
Within the EU, Regulation (EU) 2019/1111 (Brussels IIb) complements the 1980 Convention and supports faster handling and smoother cross-border recognition/enforcement. Official practical explanations are on e-Justice – Brussels IIb overview and the topic page e-Justice – parental child abduction.
- Speed expectations: e-Justice explains Brussels IIb builds on the 1980 return mechanism and complements it, including procedural timelines and Central Authority cooperation elements. e-Justice – Brussels IIb overview.
- Recognition/enforcement tools: e-Justice highlights that cross-border enforcement uses a copy of the decision and a relevant certificate, with standard forms available. overview and Brussels IIb forms (EN).
- Scope note: e-Justice states Brussels IIb applies in EU Member States except Denmark and has applied since 1 August 2022. e-Justice – parental responsibility/contact rights.
6) Emergency checklist: the first 48 hours (practical, without panic)
The goal is to prevent “loss of trail” and build the minimum evidence bundle for the correct route (EU / Hague 1980 / non-EU). If there is an immediate safety risk, use local emergency channels as well.
- Write a precise timeline: dates/times, last known location, who decided, what agreements existed.
- Collect core documents: child’s birth certificate; any custody/contact orders or agreements; proof of the child’s habitual-life centre (school/nursery, doctor, address, routine).
- Secure digital evidence: messages, emails, chats, travel tickets/reservations, school communications. Preserve originals and metadata; avoid editing files.
- Contact the relevant Central Authority: for Hague 1980 applications and/or EU cooperation. In Romania, Law no. 369/2004 designates the Ministry of Justice as Central Authority. Law no. 369/2004.
- Think “anti-flight” measures: if there is risk of further movement, Romanian procedure allows interim measures related to the child’s travel documents. Law no. 369/2004.
- Keep communications short and factual: avoid wording that could be construed as after-the-fact consent; prioritise locating the child and safety.
- List institutions and witnesses: school, afterschool, doctors, coaches, relatives—anyone who can confirm the child’s habitual residence and routine.
- Use official guidance pages: e-Justice – parental child abduction and HCCH – Child Abduction Section.
7) Evidence and communication: what matters in practice
- Habitual residence is evidence-driven: school attendance, healthcare, routine, housing and community ties often matter more than broad statements.
- Actual exercise of custody/access rights: preserve proof you exercised your rights (pick-ups, handovers, travel, payments, dated communications).
- Official documents from abroad: Romania’s implementing law contains special rules for using documents from the requesting state’s authorities within the Romanian return procedure. Law no. 369/2004.
- Child-centred communication: avoid putting the child in the middle; keep a calm, consistent tone to reduce escalation and implementation problems later.
8) Myths vs reality (that change the strategy)
| Myth | Reality | Where to verify |
|---|---|---|
| “The 1980 Convention decides final custody.” | It is primarily a return mechanism; long-term custody/contact decisions are generally for the courts of the child’s habitual residence. | HCCH – 1980 Convention |
| “Inside the EU, the 1980 Convention doesn’t matter.” | Brussels IIb builds on and complements the 1980 mechanism (speed, certificates, forms, enforcement tools). | e-Justice – Brussels IIb overview |
| “Waiting reduces conflict, so it helps.” | Delay can undermine practical options; official guidance emphasises prompt action, and the Convention contains time-related provisions (including a one-year threshold). | e-Justice – abduction; HCCH – 1980 Convention |
| “HCCH or portals will handle the case for me.” | HCCH states it cannot assist individual cases; portals provide guidance and point to competent authorities. | HCCH – Child Abduction Section |
9) Contact schedule (access rights): how to reach real-world enforcement
A contact schedule works only when it is clear and enforceable in practice. The legal route differs if enforcement is domestic (Romania), within the EU (Brussels IIb), or non-EU (often Hague 1996 + national law, depending on treaty status).
- Romania (domestic): aim for a clear enforceable title (court decision / agreement with legal effect) and practical handover rules (time, place, holidays, communication). Where repeated obstruction exists, enforcement planning becomes crucial and is often handled locally.
- EU: e-Justice explains basic enforcement logic across Member States: you typically need a copy of the decision and the relevant certificate; standard forms exist under Brussels IIb. See overview and Brussels IIb forms.
- Non-EU: check whether the country is a party to Hague 1996 (protective measures/custody/contact recognition) and/or Hague 1980 (return). HCCH – 1996 Convention; HCCH – 1980 status table.
10) When to involve a local lawyer (and why it can be decisive)
- Urgent interim measures are needed: including anti-flight measures allowed by Romanian procedure in the return context. Law no. 369/2004.
- EU cross-border enforcement is required: certificates/forms and coordination between jurisdictions. Brussels IIb forms.
- Non-EU treaty coverage is uncertain: quickly verifying whether the relevant country is a party (1980/1996) can reshape the route. 1980 status.
Sources (official)
- HCCH – 1980 Hague Child Abduction Convention (full text)
- HCCH – 1980 Convention status table (Contracting Parties)
- HCCH – Child Abduction Section (official resources)
- HCCH – Guides to Good Practice (1980 Convention)
- HCCH – Guide to Good Practice, Part I (Central Authority Practice) (PDF)
- EUR-Lex – Regulation (EU) 2019/1111 (Brussels IIb) (official text)
- EU e-Justice Portal – Brussels IIb overview
- EU e-Justice Portal – Brussels IIb forms (EN)
- EU e-Justice Portal – parental child abduction (EN)
- EU e-Justice Portal – parental child abduction (RO)
- EU e-Justice Portal – parental responsibility: custody and contact rights (overview)
- Romania – Law no. 369/2004 implementing Hague 1980 (Portal Legislativ)
- HCCH – 1996 Child Protection Convention (full text)
